Develop healthy relationships in adolescence Ability to be yourself. Share trust and be honest with each other. These aren't the only questions you can ask yourself. If you can think of any way in which your boyfriend or girlfriend is trying to control you, make you feel bad about yourself, isolate you from the rest of your world, or this is great physical or sexual harm, then it's time to get out of there, fast.
Let a trusted friend or family member know what's going on and make sure you're safe. Being a teenager is difficult, but it can be easier when adults can take steps to strengthen relationships with their teens.